Grow Your Knowledge
Arm yourself with information so you can recognize manipulation and abuse. If you can see what is happening, you can avoid trauma, heal yourself from past painful experiences, and avoid future ones.
Not All Physical Domestic Violence Leaves Bruises
Victims in this situation don’t have the same options available for help. What do you do when it’s he said/ she said with no visible bruises that show?
A Checklist For What To Do After A Domestic Violence Incident
The moments immediately after a domestic violence incident are confusing and chaotic. Write down this list and check it off as you go.
In Home Stalking
How do to get away from someone after a breakup who lives in the same home you do?
A Checklist For What To Do After A Domestic Violence Incident
Use this checklist to keep yourself safe, create a record for court and to jumpstart your healing.
Your Support Community Matters
Choosing the right support community is important. How do you know if you’re in the right space?
“I Don’t Understand How You Didn’t Know.”
This questions isn’t easy to answer. How did we miss that our partner’s had a complete life in the shadows?
When Stalking Doesn’t Feel Like Stalking
Not all stalking is done in secret but it still causes the same anxiety and behavior changes in it’s victims. Just because you are married or in a relationship with a person, that doesn’t mean their actions are acceptable.
Abuse Enablers Love To Play “The Devil’s Advocate”
Why do enablers like to play this role and how does it harm you even further?
There Will Always Be Some Reason To Break No-Contact With An Ex
No-contact is hard to maintain. If you feel your resolve slipping, check out this article.
The Temporary Delusional States We Hold Within Abusive Relationships
Every abuse victim does this but it doesn’t get talked about enough. This is the reason it’s so hard to see clearly while in the relationship.
Overcoming Trauma Triggers By Embracing Reactivity
You can learn a lot from the way you react in a situation. Turn those reactions into strengths with a few tweaks.
The Term “Generational Poverty” Perfectly Describes Narcissistic Family Legacies
Something get passed down like genetic traits. This is one that narcissists doom their descendants with.
What Was Your Carrot?
What did the narcissist in your life use to keep you hanging around?
Ethical Non-Monogamy Isn’t This Cure For Cheating
Has your partner suggested this as a “fix” for their cheating ways?
Translating Commonly Used Narcissist Sayings
Why don’t narcissists say what they mean?
If you’ve ever wondered about the true meaning behind their phrases, look no further.
What Do You Do With Your Want For “Revenge” After Leaving A Narcissistic Relationship
How do you fight the urge to take out your pain on the people who hurt you?
I Never Considered It Abusive
It can nearly impossible to see what is happening all around you when you have been abused systematically for years.
The Simplest Way To Understand A Trauma Bond
Do you know what a trauma bond is? How do you create defenses around something you can’t see, touch, or hear?
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