Grow Your Knowledge
Arm yourself with information so you can recognize manipulation and abuse. If you can see what is happening, you can avoid trauma and heal yourself from past painful experiences.
Ethical Non-Monogamy Isn’t This Cure For Cheating
Has your partner suggested this as a “fix” for their cheating ways?
Translating Commonly Used Narcissist Sayings
Why don’t narcissists say what they mean?
If you’ve ever wondered about the true meaning behind their phrases, look no further.
What Do You Do With Your Want For “Revenge” After Leaving A Narcissistic Relationship
How do you fight the urge to take out your pain on the people who hurt you?
I Never Considered It Abusive
It can nearly impossible to see what is happening all around you when you have been abused systematically for years.
They Can’t “Unbecome” A Narcissist
You’ll never be able to win a losing battle.
A narcissist is always going to be a narcissist. No matter what you try and do for them.
The Clown, The Flags, The Magic, The Illusions, The Games, The Funhouse, The Side Show
How could you know it would become so dangerous and toxic?
You Can’t Say The Wrong Thing To The Right Person
Is your partner trying to understand you? Do they want to hear your side of the story? Or are they picking a fight?
Did The Narcissist Know They Were Hurting Me?
Was the narcissist aware they were hurting you? This is one of the biggest questions I get.
This Is Why No-Contact Didn’t Work For You After Your Break-Up
No contact can be hard. Following these steps will make it a lot easier on you so you aren’t susceptible to getting sucked back in.
Narcissistic Love Is The Monkey’s Paw Of Romance
Old fables and short stories can teach us a lot about dangerous people.
It Wasn’t My Fault. You Allowed Yourself To Get Hurt
This warped view is how narcissists feel justified in hurting you.
Obviously, it’s all your fault.
Pictures Remember When We Can’t
Like journaling, images can be a time machine. They take us back to moments we lived before. They can be essential in healing.
Do Caterpillars Know How To Become Butterflies?
Trauma changes you. Healing changes you too. Trust that the person you are growing into will be beautiful.
Affair Recovery: Fast Forgiveness is False Forgiveness
Don't force yourself to forgive too fast.
Take your time and let your system settle down. It's worth the wait.
The Compliment/Insult Technique Used By the Victim Narcissist
This is how a narcissist will use complimenting you to get attention for themselves.
Does It Matter If You Attract Narcissists Or Other Toxic Personality Types?
Do you believe a narcissist magnet exists? Are you one of them?
After Leaving, Excessively Talking About The Trauma Is Normal
Why do abuse victims trauma dump after leaving? There's a good reason why this happens.
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